Paul O. Zelinsky used oil paintings to bring the story of Rapunzel
The husband has enough of hearing about his wife's craving and he goes over the wall and onto the sorceress' land to steal some rapunzel. He is caught and in exchange for his life, he promises the sorceress the life of his baby. This story clearly has an awesome moral attached for pregnant women and their husbands.
Faƫrie contains many things besides elves and fays, and besides dwarfs, witches, trolls, giants, or dragons; it holds the seas, the sun, the moon, the sky; and the earth, and all things that are in it: tree and bird, water and stone, wine and bread, and ourselves, mortal men, when we are enchanted. - J.R.R. Tolkien
My favorite version of Beauty and the Beast
Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adults themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty, I read them openly. When I became a man, I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up. - C.S. Lewis
And finally, what's a post about fairy tales that doesn't include Cinderalla? (A sad post, that's what!)
The version of Cinderella
It is something of an amazement to me, as I've been putting together these posts, at the number of anti-fairy-tale articles I found online. I'm not going to link to them because I think their arguments are flatly ridiculous. There is a growing movement to withhold fairy tales from our children, chiefly so that they will not grow disappointed with their reality. Is it likely that a young girl is going to marry a handsome prince these days? Likely no. However, is it likely that if she pursues excellence and maintains high standards than a man of honor will take note of her? I say yes.
A lot of people are wary of Disney for causing girls to dream of becoming princesses. You can let that bother you if you like but I don't think there is good cause. Girls tend to like pretty dresses - even the most rough and tumble girls I know and know of. We have in us a desire for beauty - not just in pretty clothes and grand castles - but in good character and genteel manners. Reading fairy tales draws us up and out of ourselves to think on things that are noble and good. Being drawn up when reading a story is far superior to being left in a dirty mire which is, in my opinion, the modern novel. Instead of being satisfied with what we see, shouldn't we want to have high ideals and goals? Shouldn't we want that our young boys would be brave and courageous? Shouldn't we want for our girls to make admirable decisions for themselves? (I'll remind the reader that both Beauty and Cinderella both make their own sacrificial choices. Yet when push comes to shove they stand for what is just in their individual situations. I find them admirable both in picture books and at the hand of Disney.)
I think we can see ourselves in fairy tales - both what we are and what we want to be. Furthermore, I think we should look for ourselves there. We might be delighted by what is discovered when we immerse our society in fairy tales once again.
And contrary to popular opinion, our children can handle these tales. They want to read them and should be told that it is right for them to do so. My boys are rivted to each of the stories I have shared with you the past few days. Sometimes I cringe when reading, wondering what they'll think of the evil characters and periodic death scenes. I am always surprised and gratified to discover that such stories excite them. When I say that they are excited, I do not mean to violence but in a way that leads to heroism! They read and then run off to pretend that they are fighting against bad guys. I always want them to look for evil and to counter it with good. Always.
I hope my children continue to love fairy tales and I intend to always encourage them. Why? Because I value noble hearts, brave deeds and sacrificial love. Fairy tales tell us about such things. Therefore they ought not to be so readily dismissed.
Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again. - C.S. Lewis
8 comments:
Thank you for sharing your favorite fairy tales. I've been wanting to get some fairy tales to have on hand when my daughter is old enough, but I haven't had a good idea on which ones to start collecting.
Besides there are plenty of fairy tales that aren't just beautiful-girl-marries-handsome-prince. Really there's a huge variety out there that speak to many different aspects of life.
I've been collecting fairy tales, but I admit I prefer the less gruesome versions....where the bad guy is still defeated and the good guy saves the day, but without losing so many body parts and being cut open and all that. Apparently, I don't read them right, because I still get nightmares from that kind of stuff. ;) (not against them, though) I still have them, and will try them out on my boys a little down the road.
Grasshopper woke up a couple of weeks ago yelling, "I need to kiss the princess!!!! I've got to find the castle!!!!" It both warmed my heart and caused a little fear. ;)
K.Y. Craft is probably my favorite book artist out there! I've got a few of her books on my shelf, but hope to collect them all eventually! I was happy to see her on your list. :D
Thanks for these lists! I'll keep a look out for some of them now. I checked my library for Cinderella books and their copy was a version with pictures of dogs as the characters. :P
I have loved these fairy tail posts. Most of the books I had not seen, like Jan Brett!? And I love the Cinderella.
I believe in fairy tales, I think each individual lives their own, be they a princess or knight. Metaphorically speaking.
My Mr is my knight, he defeats dragons for me, he dedends me and cherishes me.
I, in turn must be his princess, I encourage and support him, I keep the castle safe while he is gone and I never throw him to the wolves by word or deed.
Every boy should quest for his princess and every princess should wait for the good knight.
I have loved these fairy tail posts. Most of the books I had not seen, like Jan Brett!? And I love the Cinderella.
I believe in fairy tales, I think each individual lives their own, be they a princess or knight. Metaphorically speaking.
My Mr is my knight, he defeats dragons for me, he dedends me and cherishes me.
I, in turn must be his princess, I encourage and support him, I keep the castle safe while he is gone and I never throw him to the wolves by word or deed.
Every boy should quest for his princess and every princess should wait for the good knight.
Sometimes I think that those who are strongly opposed to fairy tales are reacting to what they *think* the tales say or mean, and often haven't really read them. Or they are perhaps thinking of the Disneyfied versions.
Carrots correctly notes that there are such a huge variety (from around the world, too!) with different points and ideas. It's actually a pretty small percentage that are "princess is rescued by prince."
My kids - particularly the girls, who are older - enjoy fairy tales, and we have read them together. Even the more gruesome ones. Interesting discussions ensue.
There is so much to discover through fairy tales and literature as the kids grow. I can't imagine missing it.
I need to get back to reading the originals. Once Upon a Time has gotten me confused. :-) (I happen at this very minute to be watching Ever After.)
"Sometimes I think that those who are strongly opposed to fairy tales are reacting to what they *think* the tales say or mean, and often haven't really read them. Or they are perhaps thinking of the Disneyfied versions."
I'm one who will admit to being fairly anti-fairy tale. It is a reaction to the Disney versions. For almost all of them, I am not a fan. I had a Disney crazed niece and these Disney stories did not do her any favors. (I say she was Disney crazed because, to be honest, I haven't seen her in 2 years and she may have grown out of it.)
I will also confess to having not read any of the originals. My parents wouldn't let me watch or read anything with witches or magic while growing up and I still shy away from it. It's mainly because I'm not sure how that magic fits in with a strong belief in God and the Bible. I'd rather continue to shy away from the magic while being unsure of how to deal with it Biblically than to dive in and be convicted by reading the Bible that it is wrong. Not saying it is Biblically wrong, just saying I don't know.
Anyways, long comment to say "I agree with Diary of an Autodidact that some people's anti-fairy tale view is due to Disney adaptations." ;)
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