Motherhood naturally decreases the focus on self and focus on children increases in the general scheme of things. I found during this reading that I didn't so much mind not hearing directly about Anne and her life as I have in times past. Instead I enjoyed getting to know her through the eyes of her children. You can still learn plenty about Anne, but knowledge comes naturally through her offspring as opposed to her own personal experiences. As Anne told Marilla once upon a time, “There's such a lot of different Annes in me. I sometimes think that is why I'm such a troublesome person. If I was just the one Anne it would be ever so much more comfortable, but then it wouldn't be half so interesting.” Reading Anne of Ingleside
In case you are unfamiliar with the story of Anne of Ingleside
It is safe to assume that I enjoyed this title from start to finish but the thing I loved the very most were the concluding two chapters. I don't want to spoil it for anyone who might not have read this title already but I will say that the books ends with a tight focus on Anne and Gilbert's marriage. In these chapters we see her "realistically." She is weary from keeping up with general life. She and Gilbert are run down and overly busy. They discover that they still have things to work out in their relationship but they remain committed to each other and their future. It was good to see Anne endure a long day or two and have some misgivings about herself. It was good to "hear" her process her marriage, to see them fight and laugh and cry a little too. I don't think Montgomery could have ended this particular "chapter" of Anne's life in a more perfect manner.
Some might say that Anne and Gilbert have an idealistic marriage and I can see the argument. However, I can also say that there are a lot of people in this world who know a hard day but are committing to sticking things out and finding ways to forgive and love and move along. Idealistic? I'd rather say that it's encouraging. No one's life is perfect, no matter what it might look like on the outside. Every marriage requires work and it's delightful to come across literary and real life characters who admit there's a struggle involved in the beauty of it all.
Anne of Ingleside

5 comments:
Carrie, the entire Anne of Green Gables books are already in my queue at the library...so please no spoilers :D mari
I loved rereading this one as well ... though I had forgotten how Anne has the foray into matchmaking and that drove me a little bonkers. : )
I remember feeling the same with some of these books with an older Anne -- missing her a bit but enjoying seeing how she evened out as an adult. I love when authors show realism in relationships.
This is one of my favorites as well. I love that we get the opportunity to see Gilbert and Anne in a mature marriage. One of my favorite parts is quoted here (latter quote) http://libraryhospital.blogspot.com/2011/02/romantic-passages-from-favorite-reads_11.html?m=0
I've got a ways to go. I'm only on Anne of Avonlea.
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